I am 18 and my boyfriend has recently joined the Army. He is in BCT at the moment. When he gets done with BCT and AIT, I wanted to see if he wanted to get married that way we could live together. We plan on living on base. My question is will they…Continue
Well, a lot of people just post about there guys on here bc it's a place to be able to do that bc after all this is a place where we are supposed to understand what they are dealing with bc as you know most people not in military relationships don't understand why we do what we do, so that being said if one girl post I miss him everyday let her she misses her guy it's her way of trying to feel better although we know she misses him sometimes maybe she's reaching out for someone to talk to an that person hasn't been there to comfort her yet idk just saying everyone deals with it differently
Yea I don't see how people can just drop their friends like that.but I'm sure if they want something from him or you they will call you.but it's pretty cool like meeting milso's and other people that are in the army.cuz you can bond with them and relate alot.
I havent heard from him in a few days, he hasnt been on. So my wishful thinking is maybe theyre on their way home! haha probably not though. And i wish he did too, but i doubt hes really talked to anyone, which makes me feel a litttle bit better. Not sure what his mom thinks now, i think she thinks the same thing as me and his sister. I think she definitely wants to see us back together. So well see when he gets home :| I think sometimes they just get annoyed by their parents when they ask too many questions! lol, but hows everything going with you?!
Hey! Thanks :) and no problem! I was actually going to text you and ask you how things were going! He did reply, thankfully, he said that things were going good and that he was almost done. Sometime in the beginning of June. Then i talked to him the next day, only briefly, about how i was done with school and my grades. But i went to dinner with his mom tonight, and she said they haven't talked to him in a while either. So that makes me feel a lot better! Still writing and everything. Hahaha, his mom actually asked if we got married when i went out there for spring break, because she though the whole break up thing was a deployment thing.
We actually were running a long distance relationship before he deployed and when he gets back
I will officially be living up there :) so that makes it a little bit easier....plus he actually started making lifelong plans with me today. Stupid silly ones about where we're living once he's done deploying but it was pretty exciting too :)
Thanks for lettin me know I'm not alone...it really does help. I just feel real lost right now...like if I can't get over being a wreck like this he's going to get tired of hearing me cry and find someone who can hold themselves together. Blah idk...just a rough day haha but thank you again