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Comment by Selina Butterworth on May 19, 2012 at 4:01pm

Thank You, Cynthia. I Know I Do! 

Comment by Cynthia Pacheco on May 18, 2012 at 4:51pm

selina ur right a real man will  help a woman raise her child, that is a real man, and this guy who walked out of your childs life is a jerk. sounds like you have a good man in your life.

Comment by Selina Butterworth on May 18, 2012 at 4:01pm

Cynthia, I'm Glad My Blog Could Be A Stress Relief For You. To Be Honest, I've Been Going Through Something Similar For The Past 8-9 Months. I Was With My (Ex)Boyfriend Marshall, Before I Was With Aaron. We Were Together For 6 Months. When I Found Out I Was Pregnant, He Split. 48 Hours After We Split, Aaron & I Started Talking.. As Friends. Because That's What I Needed At The Time. Eventually, We Fell For One Another. Now The Whole Time Aaron & I Were Talking, He Was Overseas & Had About 7 Months Until He Came Home On Leave. I Never Thought I Would Fall For Him, So I Let The Pieces Fall Where They May. The More We Talked, The More I Found Myself Falling For Aaron.. Hard! When Marshall Seen What He Lost, He Tried Every Way Possible To Get Me Back. Just Two Weeks Ago, I Was Pumping Gas At A Gas Station. Marshall Pulled Up.. Two Pumps Down From Me. He Got Out Of His Car, Spotted Me & Walked Over. He Tried To Make Small Talk. Needless To Say, I Just Stood There. I Had Nothing To Say. He Was Asking Me How Was Aaron & I. I Replied REALLY FAST: GOOD. ENGAGED!!!!!! He Was Happy For Me --- So He Said. When He Had To Get Back To His Car, He Side Hugged Me & Tried To Kiss Me. I Slapped Him In The Face & I Drove Off. That Was That. At That Moment, I Knew What A Scum He Was. I Would Never EVER Think Of Cheating On My Fiance. We've Been Loyal & Honest To Each Other Our Whole Relationship. I'm Not Going To Mess That Up For Some Joker That Was In My Past That Walked Out On Me & His Child. Aaron Was There For Me Through Everything. EVERYTHING! & That Child Wasn't Even His. He Said "I Would Raise That Little Boy Like He's My Own." I Have So Much Respect For Someone Like That, On Top Of Fighting For Everyone In This Country. It Takes A Real Man To Want To Take Care Of Another Man's Kid. 

Comment by Cynthia Pacheco on May 18, 2012 at 1:23pm

this is a good post. thank you for writing it. i love my fiancee and would never ever cheat on him, he is the best thing to have happened to me. it is ironic i reread this bcuz a friend who i thought was a friend told my ex i was engaged and my ex showed up at my door a bit ago. my so called friend told him about my engagement and that he was out of the country, and so this guy thought he could just show up, well he tried to kiss me bcuz he thought maybe i needed someone since my fiancee is out of the country. i told him get out i would never cheat on richy ever just cuz he is out of the country serving for this country i would not cheat its not in me. i texted my neighbor and told her if she ever sees this guy again not to tell him anything and her son came out and upstairs as my ex was leaving. i told him ur not welcome here anymore ever. and oh that just angered me. he left. i came back and just reread your post and had to reply. this is so hard but im so proud of myself. i would never do that to richy ever. i have learned a lot about myself through this and because of him, he makes me want to be a better person. he is not just my fiancee but my best friend and this is hard because i miss him so much and it just makes me love and appreciate him more as i go through this. thanks for this post and letting me rant on here. im going to go do some school work to take my mind off of this.