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Permalink Reply by Natasha Scheffert on February 27, 2012 at 8:54pm

ohhh she most definitely would rethink all of her choices if we could let her know what's up lol

Jessica Nicole said:

she'd be in trouble if we all were able to say something to her face to face lol

Briaunna Huseman said:

this is probably thee most ridiculous thing I have ever read.  She probably brags that she's an army girlfriend, too....if you love someone you wait for them and sacrifice for them, especially when he is fighting for our country.  I wish I could say something to this girl...this is so disrespectful and this guy deserves to know what she is planning.

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Permalink Reply by Jacqui Miret on February 27, 2012 at 8:57pm

Hmm. Here's how I'd imagine doing it:

Pull him aside saying something like "I know I don't know you very well, but there's something we need to talk about). Obviously, be out of the bimbo's earshot. Just be completely honest with him. Say that she's told you about something that she's going to do to him. Tell him she doesn't plan on staying with him. 
I really don't think there's any other way to do it...

Amy Ray said:

i want to tell him so badly! i just dont know how
 
Briaunna Huseman said:

this is probably thee most ridiculous thing I have ever read.  She probably brags that she's an army girlfriend, too....if you love someone you wait for them and sacrifice for them, especially when he is fighting for our country.  I wish I could say something to this girl...this is so disrespectful and this guy deserves to know what she is planning.

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Permalink Reply by Jacqui Miret on February 27, 2012 at 8:59pm

Like I said before, bitch needs to be slapped. I don't think it would only be verbal abuse coming from us... or at least from me.

Natasha Scheffert said:

ohhh she most definitely would rethink all of her choices if we could let her know what's up lol

Jessica Nicole said:

she'd be in trouble if we all were able to say something to her face to face lol

Briaunna Huseman said:

this is probably thee most ridiculous thing I have ever read.  She probably brags that she's an army girlfriend, too....if you love someone you wait for them and sacrifice for them, especially when he is fighting for our country.  I wish I could say something to this girl...this is so disrespectful and this guy deserves to know what she is planning.

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Permalink Reply by Abril Adams on February 27, 2012 at 9:15pm

Woooooww.....I can't believe they moved past that ! That right there would've been my sign to run fast if I were him. Wtf is her issue...she really thinks that's cute. Sad part is she's gonna screw that up and end up seeing what all she missed. Yeah waiting is hard but that doesn't mean it doesn't make a real relationship. In fact, I don't think it's a real relationship if you CAN'T be apart for a longer amount of time. A real relationship can work through that. I been married 8 months and only been with my husband 2 weeks out of that time. She should seriously be embarrassed for even saying that...I agree....she needs to be slapped ..smh

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Permalink Reply by Amy Ray on February 27, 2012 at 9:47pm

she just doesnt see how much she cares about her. he goes out of her wway all the time to be nice to her, show her affection, buy her things, etc. all things that we would die for to have every day. it just makes me so mad that she doesnt see how great of a guy she is. i cant tell you how many times we've fought over this. she just doesn't understand what a real relationship is. I think im just gonna tell him everything. its gonna hurt his feelings but it'll hurt less now then later.

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Permalink Reply by Amy Ray on March 1, 2012 at 4:04pm

well...i told him. he was heart broken. he just kept asking if i was sure. he asked her to dinner like eveything was fine but he broke up with her. she called me mad that he dumped her for "a stupidass reason". when i told her that i agreed with him she hung up. i hope he finds someone that actually cares about him. im not sure what is going to happen with our friendship since she knows im the one that told him. thank goodness ill be moving to Alaska soon!

thanks so much for the support and advice ladies!

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Permalink Reply by Abril Adams on March 1, 2012 at 4:07pm

You did the right thing. Let her be mad...maybe it'll help her grow up. And hopefully he'll find somebody worht his time and when he does he'll realize how wrong she was for him.
 
Amy Ray said:

well...i told him. he was heart broken. he just kept asking if i was sure. he asked her to dinner like eveything was fine but he broke up with her. she called me mad that he dumped her for "a stupidass reason". when i told her that i agreed with him she hung up. i hope he finds someone that actually cares about him. im not sure what is going to happen with our friendship since she knows im the one that told him. thank goodness ill be moving to Alaska soon!

thanks so much for the support and advice ladies!

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Permalink Reply by Amy Ray on March 1, 2012 at 4:26pm

I sure hope so. Shes just still so im the immature, all i think about is sex, stage of life. Shes off to college in the fall and will probably come back with a baby. I can't wait to get to Alaska and meet women that support waiting for their men. Thats why I love getting on here! you ladies understand what the hell im talking about!

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