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Created by Allee Campbell Mar 8, 2012 at 2:31pm. Last updated by Allee Campbell Mar 8, 2012.

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Started by Sidney McDaniel. Last reply by Sidney McDaniel Mar 12. 8 Replies

I am 18 and my boyfriend has recently joined the Army. He is in BCT at the moment. When he gets done with BCT and AIT, I wanted to see if he wanted to get married that way we could live together. We plan on living on base. My question is will they…Continue

What would you tell someone who is just entering the military lifestyle?

Started by Allee Campbell. Last reply by Carrie Finegan Apr 25. 29 Replies

Do you have any advice? Any words of encouragement?

What Branch Is Your Loved One In?

Started by Allee Campbell. Last reply by Carrie Finegan Apr 25. 149 Replies

Mike is with the United States Marines :)  Hopefully by answering this question you may find others who are associated with the same branch and make friends!Continue

How long have you known your military loved one?

Started by Allee Campbell. Last reply by Carrie Finegan Apr 25. 123 Replies

Mike and I have been together for over a year and a half. I have loved every second I have been with him. Best year and a half of my life <3

How do you show your military pride?

Started by Allee Campbell. Last reply by Carrie Finegan Apr 25. 80 Replies

I always wear my Marine Corps sweatshirt and I have a liscense plate that says "My heart belongs to a US Marine". Plus other things. I love to show my pride. How do you all show your pride?

What do you like about being part of the military family?

Started by Allee Campbell. Last reply by Christina Sep 26, 2012. 20 Replies

I love the fact that no matter who I meet who has a loved one in the military, there's an immediate bond with that person. We just understand each other. What do you like?

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Hi Ladies! First off I'd like to say hope everyone is doing well! Ok so I must admit i have been a little overwhelmed lately with my relationship with my Marine. Im actually in tears writing this so bear w/me lol.Ok so if u have been followin my storyline on here then u kno my bf is not on deployment and recently was in his field training.. Ok so after 2 wks i get a text response explainin that he destroyed his phone... i guess that was his excuse of not communicating. Idk i feel like were so distant its like he makes no effort lately everything is work & military stuff, now i kno wat i was gettin into from the beginnin but i jus feel like im the one who is trying really hard to hold us together & i do feel a lil unappreciated...i asked him last nite "are we good" n he was like "yes we are, why?, lol" so i explained how we barely talk lately n he didn say much.. i feel like he is losin interest...im tryin diff ways to approach him but how do you make some 1 listen if u cant get them on the phone.. so i asked him 4 his email explainin that i need to have alt ways of contact & gave it to me..

well i sent him a lil package with a pic album n 2 1/2 short pg letter, i chkd online & it said it was delivered, but when i asked him he said he didn get anything.. i poured out my emotions in it & i really felt like i needed to do somethin diff & unexpected. Im hopin once he gets this, it will help cuz idk wat else to do! Thanks 4 reading...

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Has he got it yet? Did it change things?

Hang in there. Sometimes they get so overwhelmed by their work, they start seeming distant. It's hard to understand the kind of life they're living, because ours are so different back home. I feel the same way with my fiance sometimes. He almost seems to "shut down", when really he is just so exhausted and stressed, he doesn't know what else to do.  Hopefully everything will even out for you guys :)

You have to stay strong, I have been going through this with my sailor off and on, and it has led to full blown arguments (especially about the unappreciated part) Is he on base? If he is you have to realize that his package may have been delivered already but it hasn't got to where he is staying. Does this make sense? I know when I send my sailor stuff to his barracks it literally takes a month and a half to get to him. The base mailing is so slow. Just continue talking to him and one thing that worked for me is telling my sailor not to shut me out, they have to talk to someone you know? So just try that with him, reassure him that you are here to stay and that he needs to communicate. Let us now how it goes !

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